Hi Mendoza,
As long as the content is legal there is no problem at all with hosting your dating website. I would suggest one of our
cloud hosting servers as this would easily give you the bandwidth you need, is fully scalable so you can upgrade as your site grows and has 100% uptime. To get the best loading speeds I would recommend having the maximum RAM and CPU selected. This obviously depends on the power you need but if you think you need more power than that feel free to PM me or speak with me on live chat and im sure we can find a good server solution for you.